Ray Howard • LICSW •

IFS-I Approved Clinical Consultant 

Clinical Consultation

To witness IFS transform my client’s lives is inspirational, and to pass along the wisdom I’ve gained studying and practicing the model since 2007 is a great honor. I provide consultation for IFS certification to individuals and groups based on the consultation I’ve received from lead trainers in both IFS-I and IFIO. I encourage therapists and practitioners to videotape sessions and to review them in consultation. Videotape is invaluable to the process of learning what we do well and what the learning edges are for the therapist. Often, when we review videotape, the parts of the therapist manifest and provide trailheads for further learning.

In individual and group supervision, we review the model from a pedagogical perspective as we study the 6 F’s, the healing/shamanic part of the protocol—including witnessing, unburdening, and retrieval—how to work with polarizations, direct access, legacy burdens, unattached burdens, self like parts, the role of firefighter/distractor parts in the addictive process, and the mini-unblend—a brilliant, simple skill developed by Cece Sykes that helps the therapist and client pause and notice what’s going on, where they are internally and what might help. In all of our efforts to understand better these aspects of the model, we are always focused on the parts of the therapist.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is a habit.

-Aristotle

From My Blog

Three Unblending Techniques

Externalizing Right Hand Left Hand The Table Technique Look Into My Eyes These three skills work well as a logical progression from a simple unblending exercise with right hand, left hand to the Table Technique, which involves more parts, to Look Into My Eyes, which...

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Working with Polarizations: Case Example

We’re always working with polarizations in IFS.  Always.  Working with polarizations is complex and we need to always recall that multiple parts present.  It’s much more realistic to see our client’s as having multiple teams of parts that work in concert to keep pain...

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The Mini-Pause Unblend

I’d like to tell you about an IFS micro-intervention that I use in my practice with individuals, couples, and as an IFS informed consultant.  It’s called Mini-Pause Unblend.  It was developed by IFS lead trainer, Cece Sykes.  The Mini-Pause Unblend is a simple,...

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