Ray Howard • LICSW •

IFS-I Approved Clinical Consultant 

Clinical Consultation

To witness IFS transform my client’s lives is inspirational, and to pass along the wisdom I’ve gained studying and practicing the model since 2007 is a great honor. I provide consultation for IFS certification to individuals and groups based on the consultation I’ve received from lead trainers in both IFS-I and IFIO. I encourage therapists and practitioners to videotape sessions and to review them in consultation. Videotape is invaluable to the process of learning what we do well and what the learning edges are for the therapist. Often, when we review videotape, the parts of the therapist manifest and provide trailheads for further learning.

In individual and group supervision, we review the model from a pedagogical perspective as we study the 6 F’s, the healing/shamanic part of the protocol—including witnessing, unburdening, and retrieval—how to work with polarizations, direct access, legacy burdens, unattached burdens, self like parts, the role of firefighter/distractor parts in the addictive process, and the mini-unblend—a brilliant, simple skill developed by Cece Sykes that helps the therapist and client pause and notice what’s going on, where they are internally and what might help. In all of our efforts to understand better these aspects of the model, we are always focused on the parts of the therapist.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is a habit.

-Aristotle

From My Blog

I Hear You, I Feel You, I See You

This is an IFS based meditation that I developed in my private practice.  I lead this meditation for all of the individuals and couples I see at the top of every clinical hour.  I provide this on my website for clients who might find it helpful between sessions, and...

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Look Into My Eyes

This is an unblending exercise I learned from Mike Elkin in my level 2 IFS training in 2008.  My parts love this exercise.  My parts are visual and they love being able to show me what they look like and they love being seen at critical developmental thresholds. This...

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